10 Kinky Sex Suggestions – How Many Will You And Your Spouse Try?

Sometimes sex can become more than a bit routine, we’ve all been there. But if you’re boyfriend suddenly came into your room with nothing but a pair of your silk knickers on would you be horrified or turned on?

If it’s turned on then you’re in for a treat. Yes sex can become hum-drum but it can also be absolu-sexing-lutely amazing (the way we prefer it) and with these sex dares we can help you turn it around.

We talked to mysterious and super-saucy sex blogger Girl on the Net for her fun and freaky sex dares to turn up the heat on your sex life. She’s also got a new e-book out, Girl on the Net: My Not-So-Shameful Sex Secrets, and if you like these tips, we suggest you take a peek.

So if you’re longing for the day when your man comes home, switches off that Made In Chelsea catch up and you both spend all night long in an experimental sex odyssey then maybe these sex dares can help.

Well actually there’s no maybe about it…

Pump up the volume

Now, most people don’t need an excuse to be loud with their partner (yes we mean that inappropriate couple next door) but maybe we should take a bit of advice from them and just not care.

Girl on the Net says that noisy sex is some of the best and because most of us are polite to our neighbors and flatmates whilst doing the dirty, when we’re not, it’s extra hot.

“Noises are hot, right? That sound your partner makes when you do something special – the grunting, moaning noise – is amazing. So shag somewhere a bit more exposed – festival season’s coming up so tents are perfect – and dare them to make the noises they know you want to hear,” she says.

We’re reaching for the ear plugs already.

Write it down dirty

This might not seem like the kinkiest of dares – writing things down, mmm, sexy.

But, err hello, have you ever heard of Fifty Shades of Grey? We can guarantee that once you read back your own lusty lit’ to yourself you’ll be all kinds of turned on, and so will he…

Girl on the Net says: “Write each other a story – not just a story that talks about what you think your partner wants, but a story that tells them exactly what you want. From the things they know you like to the things you might be more nervous talking about.”

One thing that she says you have to do – don’t hold back!

“Write it all down: the filth, the fantasy and the things that might make them laugh. Read it aloud to them while they sit, eyes closed, and imagine all the things that are turning you on,” she says.

Surprise yourselves

Girl on the Net says taking your sex life to somewhere that neither of you expected (but both are up for) can be an amazing kinky kick.

So she says go for it: “Do something that you’re not sure about – choose something you’ve never done before – that you think is quite sexy but are nervous of trying. Ideally it should be something your partner is nervous about too.

“You’ll get the benefit of trying something hot and new that you might utterly love, but more importantly you’ll be in a situation where both of you get to exercise your ‘no’ muscles. At any point either of you can stop and say ‘I’m just not into this.

“Knowing what you’re not into is as hot as knowing what you are – and means you can be more daring in the future because you know that at some point the dares can stop.”

It’s time to push those limits. Go on, we dare you…

Swap underwear

Swapping underwear is an oldie but a goodie. Seeing your man in your tiny red underwear might sound ridiculous to some but trust us, it’s hot. Plus he’s naked anyway so if you’re not too sure, there’s your money shot right there.

“This one’s pretty straightforward – there are few sights more beautiful than seeing the one you love in your favorite silk pants. Even better if they’re bigger than you are and the fabric squashes their arse in a delightfully satisfying way.”

But it’s not just about the guys here, oh no that’s not fair! Girl on the Net has a naughty trick for you too.

“Wear theirs too. Bonus points for this dare if you can swap them in a relatively public place – on the beach, in the changing rooms at M&S, or the unisex toilets at a restaurant,” she says.

Or-glam-smic

Making a bit of effort can go a long way, so Girl on the Net dares you to get off that sofa, dust off that freak’um dress and show your man just how lucky he is.

“Dress up for no reason – you don’t have to have a French maid’s outfit just hanging around in your wardrobe for a rainy day, but pick a day to dress up in exactly the way your partner will like.

“Everything you do to make yourself feel awesome for a special night – plucking, waxing, makeup, sexy underwear, whatever. Do all of this for no reason, and surprise your partner by looking bombshell-awesome as they get home from work,” she says.

As with any surprise this can be a bit nerve-wracking but don’t worry, Girl on the Net says it will definitely be worth it.

“This takes courage – what if they don’t notice or care? – but is worth it to see the look on their face when they see you at your absolute best.”

Dress it down

Now to go the complete opposite. Some of you might not be as comfortable letting your boyfriend in on the real (see ‘hairy’) you, but seriously, some guys will dig the fact you can be sexy without even trying.
“Spend a week, fortnight, month doing absolutely none of the above. Forego all the arbitrary beauty things you’re supposed to do regularly. Avoid make-up. Wear scruffy jeans and t-shirts with holes in. Lounge around on the sofa. Don’t suck your stomach in.
“Show your partner that you’re rough and ready to shag them whenever, and you’ll not have to worry about messing up your hair. Revel in the smell, look, feel, and hotness of a completely unadulterated you. Ask your partner to do the same,” she says.
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